According to the worldview of Tantra, spirituality and sexuality do not exclude each other. Therefore, in order to reach enlightenment, a person does not have to live in asceticism and self-mortification, but should experience that he or she is already enlightened. Tantra massage can be a way to reach this realisation from the teachings of Tantra. Tantra massage refers to this approach and sees itself as holistic, non-intentional and non-judgemental.
Tantra massage is about the conscious, respectful and loving encounter between two people. There is the role of the giver and the role of the receiver. The giver gives the receiver his reverence, devotion and undivided attention. The receiver may receive all these gifts without active gestures of gratitude or reciprocation. By ritualising the process, Tantra massage overcomes the judgement of the receiver and the creativity and ego of the giver. It gains something iconic.
The receiver is revered in his masculinity or femininity because, according to the teachings of Tantra, his body is the temple of the divine. Man and woman meet during the Tantra massage in their divine part as Shiva - the consciousness, the masculine - and Shakti - the energy, the feminine. Regardless of criteria such as beauty, age, health, etc., every body is therefore equally worthy of worship. And without prejudice, without judgement. In full acceptance of his/her wholeness: no part of the body is excluded, not even the (inner and) outer genitals.
The orgasm of the receiver during the Tantra massage is possible, but not the objective. Rather, the aim is to promote the natural course of the wave of arousal, to become more aware of the sensation of stimulation and thus to achieve a new experience of sexuality. This can enhance one's own sex life, provide women with a more intuitive approach to climax in the long term, or counteract psychologically induced erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation in men.
The greatest gift of the Tantra massage, however, is to be allowed to let go, enjoy and perceive oneself. To receive affection and warmth, even caresses for the soul.